A Real Pain (2024) - New Film with Jesse Eisenberg and Kieran Culkin
Jesse Eisenberg latest film A Real Pain (2024) is a bittersweet comedy that brought Kieran Culkin an Oscar for Best Supporting Actor. It is a story of two Jewish cousins’ tour through Poland who discover their grandmother’s heritage. Full of charm, this new film also painfully reminds us of the horrors of the Holocaust. It has become very personal to the lead star as he just received Polish citizenship.
Story
Two cousins – Benji (Kieran Culkin) and David Kaplan (Jesse Eisenberg) decide to embark on a journey through Poland to honor their beloved grandmother. With a group of fellow travelers, they visit Warsaw, Lublin, and Krasnystaw. This Holocaust tour is far from a somber experience with Benji’s energetic and inappropriate behavior to the horror of his serious cousin. During the trip, the old tensions resurface causing a series of verbal sparring matches between them. The modern-day problems are a backdrop of their family history. During their trip to Poland, the mismatched cousins David and Benji see places such as the Monument to the Ghetto Heroes, Grzybów Square, the Warsaw Uprising Monument, Old Jewish Cemetery in Lublin, and visit Majdanek concentration camp. Immersed in the trauma of the past, the dynamics between them changes and nothing will be the same.
Family History in a Nutshell
Jesse Eisenberg’s movie reveals the old scars seen from a 21st-century perspective. Culkin’s performance clashes with the revered truths, and asks important questions about 'normalcy’ that’s kind of crazy in a place so damaged by the events of WW2. It is inspiring to see two young men not only reuniting for a trip but also sharing a deep emotional experience. It is not often that a screenplay is an inspiration for a search where we came from. Finding ancestors, their names, places they lived, sometimes even stories from their lives is an enriching and satisfying experience. Some people spend years searching through the archives to weave a story that connects them to the long-gone people and places. It tells as much about the past as about them and the present. Who am I? Where do I come from? What is my identity? My heritage?
That is just one side of the story. We can find 'our people’ not only through the DNA, but also through shared experiences, faith, or simply the place we live. Eloge, the Rwandan Jewish convert, played by Kurt Egyiawan may seem a stranger but nothing could be further from the truth. Perhaps the road to self-discovery does not necessarily lead through the blood relatives. Perhaps it may be enough to connect with the landscape knowing that our ancestors breathed the same air, looked at the same fields and mountains, drank water from the same stream. Do we need to hear stories directly from our nearest and dearest? Or is it enough to have someone like a British tour guide in Poland who brings the characters played by Jesse Eisenberg and Kieran Culkin closer to their roots and to each other.
Heritage and Citizenship
’A Real Pain’ was directed by Jesse Eisenberg whose family were Polish Jews and who just received Polish citizenship from the President. Highlighting his strong links with Poland and the fact that his family lived here for much longer than in the United States, Eisenberg is an example of a growing trend. Genealogy as a hobby is well and good, but the discoveries leading to a Polish passport which allows you to live, work, run businesses, and travel across the European Union may be even more satisfying. It is a complex and time-consuming process. It is also life changing.
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